Couple Test questions

A heated argument in the kitchen. You've said something you know hurt them. Five minutes pass. You...

comunicacion · Reparación temprana, conexión

A long-distance relationship becomes unsustainable and neither of you is willing to move. You...

ruptura_separacion · Decisión, Respeto Mutuo

After a miscarriage, your partner barely talks about it. You...

crianza · Apoyo incondicional, Espacio personal

After having a baby, your desire levels are at very different paces. You...

intimidad · Comprensión mutua, paciencia

At every family meal, they ask you, "So, when are you getting a partner?" You...

vida_soltera · Límites claros, respeto mutuo

During arguments, your partner raises their voice and you freeze up and shut down. You...

comunicacion · Pausa y reconexión

Every night on the sofa, you both spend your time on your phones without talking. You...

crianza · Conexión Intencional Diaria

It's been months since you've done something together that wasn't 'functional' (shopping, errands, kids). You...

tiempo_libre · Acción Clave Conexión

It's your anniversary, and your partner forgets to congratulate you until the evening. You...

vida_soltera · Vulnerabilidad y acuerdo

Someone hits on you at a dinner party and your partner finds out and laughs it off, but it actually left you wondering. You...

infidelidad_celos · Comunicación honesta y límites

You are separated and disagree with your co-parent about a rule for your child. In front of the child, you...

ruptura_separacion · Co-parenting Estratégico

You arrive home tired, and your partner immediately starts telling you about their day's problems as soon as you walk through the door. You…

comunicacion · Límites claros, escucha atenta

You both retire and suddenly spend 24/7 together. Sparks fly. You…

tiempo_libre · Autonomía y Conexión

You earn significantly more than your partner and notice tension every time you pay. You...

dinero · Diálogo claro, Pacto equitativo

You find it hard to ask for what you need and then get upset when your partner doesn't guess it. You...

comunicacion · Pedir sin adivinar

You find out your partner has significant debts they hadn't told you about. You...

dinero · Transparencia, plan conjunto

You get some good professional news and tell your partner. Your partner reacts lukewarmly. You…

comunicacion · Pedir, celebrar, conectar

You haven't had sex for weeks and you notice a distance growing between you. You...

intimidad · Humor, conexión, intimidad

You notice your partner drinks way more than they admit. When you bring it up, they get angry. You...

salud_bienestar · Confrontar con apoyo

You notice your partner has been liking an ex's photos. You...

infidelidad_celos · Diálogo claro, confianza

You start living together with your partner's children from a previous relationship. You disagree on house rules. You...

expareja_hijos · Apoyo parental, Frente unido

You want to have kids soon, but your partner prefers to wait several years. You...

proyecto_vida · Diálogo abierto, planificación

You want to make a big purchase (a car, a trip, home renovations) but can't agree on the budget. You...

dinero · Negociación constructiva

You're in a long-distance relationship and notice calls are getting shorter. You...

ruptura_separacion · Rituales de conexión

You're separated, and your ex changes the pick-up day without notice, again. You...

expareja_hijos · Límites claros, Co-parentalidad efectiva

You're with your child, and your partner shouts something at them that you consider excessive. You...

crianza · Equipo parental fuerte

You've been dating for a year, and your partner wants to move in together. You're having doubts. You...

proyecto_vida · Decidir, no deslizarse

You've been doing almost everything around the house for weeks while your partner has been "swamped." You...

dinero · Comunicar sin reprochar

You've been exhausted for a while and your partner hasn't noticed how burnt out you are. You...

salud_bienestar · Comunicar sin quejar

You've been on autopilot for a while: work, kids, sleep. You...

tiempo_libre · Conectar activamente, prioridades claras

You've been on dating apps for months, and everything feels empty. You...

vida_soltera · Pausa y reflexión

You've been single for a while and feel family pressure to "settle down." You...

vida_soltera · Límites claros, Autonomía total

You've been single for a while, and a friend insists on setting you up with someone. You...

vida_soltera · Apertura sin presión

You've been talking about buying a house for years, but nothing ever happens. You...

proyecto_vida · Claridad, compromiso mutuo

You've been thinking about breaking up for months. You haven't said a word yet. You...

ruptura_separacion · Evaluar antes de actuar

You've been thinking about ending the relationship for months but haven't dared to bring it up. You...

ruptura_separacion · Claridad antes de decidir

You've been together for 15+ years and you're bored in the relationship, even though you still love them. You...

tiempo_libre · Innovar y reconectar

You've been together for many years. Your partner brings up a topic from years ago that hurt you and was never resolved. You...

proyecto_vida · Afrontar y sanar

You've just come out of a long-term relationship and a friend is bugging you to get on dating apps "right now." You...

vida_soltera · Procesar, Sanar, Avanzar

You've recently broken up and share the same friend groups. You feel awkward running into each other. You...

ruptura_separacion · Comunicación; Límites claros

Your 8-year-old daughter is having a huge tantrum and you both react very differently in front of her. You...

crianza · Coparentar, discutir a solas

Your aging parents need more help and it's starting to cut into your quality time as a couple. You...

familia_origen · Equipo ante desafíos

Your child comes home saying that your ex lets them do things you don't allow. You...

expareja_hijos · Coparentalidad, Bienestar infanti

Your child tells you they don't like your ex's new partner. You...

expareja_hijos · Validar, escuchar, proteger

Your elderly parents are beginning to need care, and your partner feels like the burden is falling entirely on you. You...

familia_origen · Colaborar, límites claros

Your ex texts you 'I miss you' just when you're doing better. You...

vida_soltera · Claridad y límites

Your ex texts you at odd hours about the kids. Your partner gets uncomfortable. You…

expareja_hijos · Transparencia y Equipo

Your mother constantly interferes with how you run your home. Your partner asks you to put a stop to it. You...

familia_origen · Límites claros, lealtad

Your mother-in-law makes a hurtful comment about you in front of your partner. Your partner says nothing at the time. You...

familia_origen · Apoyo mutuo, límites.

Your new partner wants to be more involved in your children's upbringing, but your ex is against it. You...

expareja_hijos · Co-parentalidad estructurada

Your parents criticize your partner in front of you and you don't say anything. When your partner finds out, they feel betrayed. You...

familia_origen · Lealtad, Reparación, Seguridad

Your partner always prioritizes plans with their parents over plans with you. You...

familia_origen · Comunicar y co-crear

Your partner asks to explore a new sexual fantasy that makes you uncomfortable. You...

intimidad · Negociar intimidad, Validar límites

Your partner confesses they had a 'slip-up' months ago and ended it. You…

infidelidad_celos · Procesar, no reaccionar

Your partner drinks more than they should several nights a week, and it's affecting them. You...

salud_bienestar · Comunicación empática, Confrontación constructiva

Your partner earns significantly more than you and starts making financial decisions without consulting you. You...

dinero · Comunicación, Equidad, Negociación

Your partner feels insecure about one of your co-workers. You know there's nothing going on. You...

infidelidad_celos · Validar, comunicar, reafirmar

Your partner has been withdrawn for weeks, crying for no clear reason. You...

salud_bienestar · Apoyo incondicional, busca ayuda

Your partner has much more (or much less) desire than you. You...

intimidad · Diálogo, no suposiciones

Your partner is diagnosed with a frightening chronic illness. You...

salud_bienestar · Apoyo activo; equipo de dos

Your partner is excited about a major life project (starting a business, moving to the countryside, long-term travel) that scares you. You...

proyecto_vida · Explorar sueños compartidos

Your partner is offered a better job in another city, which means you’d have to relocate. You…

proyecto_vida · Evaluar y negociar

Your partner is struggling with depression and finds it hard to even get out of bed. For months, you’ve been carrying almost everything. You…

salud_bienestar · Apoyo mutuo, resiliencia

Your partner leaves most of the parenting decisions to you, but then criticizes how you handle them. You...

crianza · Equilibrio, comunicación clara

Your partner made a significant purchase without telling you. You…

dinero · Comunicación clara, Reparación proactiva

Your partner remains very close friends with their ex, and it makes you uncomfortable. You…

infidelidad_celos · Comunicar inquietudes, pactar límites

Your partner says to you: "You never help with the house." You...

comunicacion · Validar y solucionar

Your partner suddenly asks to see your phone without a clear reason. You...

infidelidad_celos · Curiosidad ante el miedo

Your partner tells you they want to make plans with their friends by themselves on Saturday. You…

tiempo_libre · Autonomía fortalece conexión

Your partner wants to go away for a weekend alone with their friends. You...

tiempo_libre · Autonomía y Conexión

Your partner wants to have children soon, and you're not sure. You…

crianza · Diálogo abierto, Vulnerabilidad compartida

Your sex life has been almost non-existent for months and neither of you mentions it. You...

intimidad · Comunicar con deseo